When We Hurt the Ones, We Love

Good morning I hope this finds you all well . With going back to work I have had to mainstream some of the blog and if time allows go back and post further in the day. Yesterday I just posted to the blog in the morning with the information will update later, which did not happen until 0000 after returning from work but at that time social media was updated, there were very few text sent out secondary to the hour, today will be doing something similar.

This jumped out at me to and could not be more true.

Now, we are all human and we were created to Love. As Humans, we make mistakes and at times let our emotions, mouths, and/or actions/reactions overtake us. Once we say or do something it is 100% out there nothing we can do take the words and or actions back. What we need to do is pause realize what happened and it may take a minute remember for every mistake there is a lesson, we just need to look for it. Once we recognize we have hurt a loved one with actions, words, reactions We need to first take accountability and responsibility to ourselves and then to the person. Then truly apologize. Next before something like this should occur again ask yourself if you are coming from a place of Love? How is this going to make the person feel if I say or do this ? How am I going to feel after the initial dopamine hit of I showed you ? What is the after effect to the other person and you ?Then when you have truly done everything you can to repair what happened with the other party let go of Judgement with yourself, you have done everything you can but you can not make anyone accept an apology, act, think, and/or control anyone. If you truly have done everything you can including going to your higher power let go of the judgement of yourself. It is a lot easier said then done but We must remind and hold ourselves accountable for the Life and Death Power of the Tongue. As stated before here and in the pod cast this is a stressful time and some people are literally wearing their nerves/ feelings on the outside of their body but that does not mean that we are not 100% accountable for what we say and do. This includes recognizing the mistake, taking accountability, responsibility and then doing the repair work. Some repair will take a while a home is build one piece of wood at a time . We must remind ourselves the home is build one piece at a time but one word and/ or action can be devastating to it. Come from a place of Love. Show someone some form of Love today . I Love you all have a blessed day. Repair to your ability and then let go of self judgement.