Good morning all . Yesterday’s message was only posted to the Blog in the morning secondary to only being 80% completed at the time ; however, the remainder of the Blog post was completed and added to social media sites after I got out of work last night. I was able to Podcast yesterday after work with very little audio interference and have noticed it is now up on most of the platforms. The podcast post are immediately available on the website after it is posted. Saturday and/or Sunday I will be coming to you in a podcast again.

Today Grief is knocking at me . Honestly, this could not have come at a better time.

Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning. Psalm 30:5

Honestly everyone definition of Grief could be different and how it affects them. Grief is not a straight line by any means it is a pendulum and honestly can be a never ending roller coaster for some . Does Grief ever truly go away?

Below is a definition of Grief from Psychology Today:

Grief is the acute pain that accompanies loss. Because it is a reflection of what we love, it can feel all-encompassing. Grief is not limited to the loss of people, but when it follows the loss of a loved one, it may be compounded by feelings of guilt and confusion, especially if the relationship was a difficult one.

The Five stages of Grief as described by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross are as follows:

First, denial — This can’t be happening.

Then bargaining — There must be something I can do to fix it.

Followed by anger — This is so unfair. Why me?

Then descending into depression — Life sucks.

Finally, coming into acceptance — It happened, and I’m OK with it.

OK, wanted to get the proper definition of Grief and Five Stages of Grief by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross out to you all. Now with that said Grief is not a straight line at all . You can have gone through stages 1-5 and then something happens that may be totally unrelated to the current Grieving process you are either in and/or were in and boom your back at stage 3. You may not even realize that something happened totally unrelated and boom your back to step 1 of the process. Why is that ? Does it truly ever get completely resolved? Do we recognize Grief is part of our journey and something that will require work and at times to step back and ask ok what’s happened that I feel this way again? Do we recognize we will always have Grief but it does not mean we need to let it dominate our life. Instead of allowing it dominate our life do we figure a way to live with and through the pendulum? Do we recognize that the Grief/Hurt will always be there but to varying degrees? Do we realize that by the Grief/ Hurt being there has created a Beautiful scar to be worn with honor.

Do we realize that Anniversaries, Birthdays, Deaths, Work, Relationships, Love, Fear, Worry, Doubt, Insecurity, Self-destructive behavior, special dates , etc. This list could go on forever can and will affect Grief in us?

Do we question why is God doing this to me ?

When Grief Comes, Is God Still Good?

Jesus says in the Sermon on the Mount: Blessed are the broken-hearted for they shall be comforted.

He is good and promises us that weeping endures for a night, but joy comes in the morning.

Next time you feel out of sorts first recognize it. Second try to identify what happened recently in your life, Truly unpack it. Third go to your Higher Power and know that he is there and always will be with you through every pain and every tear , He remains near the brokenhearted. Once you reach out to your Higher Power truly listen for the message from him and be open to the possible different means of communication. Pause, Meditate, Regroup, Ask for help, Get in Community . Of the outmost of importance is to Love yourself unconditionally through the process. We have all been on the roller coaster before and will be again but we also know when to call for help to get off at the gate. If you don’t call for help can you truly get off at the gate without someone/ something there to assist you and open it if you will ?

I Love You all have a blessed day. Take care of yourself and each other.

Growth

Message from the Universe

Today’s Law of Attraction

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Daily Prayer’s

God, thank You for choosing to forgive me. I don’t deserve Your forgiveness, but I know You are good and loving. I want to be like You, and because You have forgiven me, I want to forgive others. Help me each day to remember Your gift of forgiveness, and release my anger towards those who have wronged me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

God, it’s easy for me to worry about circumstances in my life. Each day, help me to remember that You are always in control. Today, I’m trusting in Your provision, protection, and plans for me. Because I know You care about every need and desire I have—I know I can rest. Give me peace as I give You control of my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Father God, please fill me completely with joy and peace because I trust in You. And if I start to feel overwhelmed, hopeless, confused, or fearful—remind me that You are near. Please make me aware of Your presence. Fill me up, God, so that way I might overflow with confident hope, regardless of what comes my way. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Lord, sometimes I feel stuck and helpless. Whether my sin leads me into muddy waters, or those who oppose me throw me in, I look to You for my rescue. Keep me from drowning in my circumstances, and reach out Your hand to return me to the safety and sure footing of Your solid rock. In Jesus’ name, amen.